Parents,
You don’t have to be perfect.
Discover how to raise healthy, confident kids even if you mess up sometimes.
“Why is this so hard for me?“
“Am I doing enough?”
“How do I raise this human?!”
☝️Sound familiar?
I know it did to me.
Hey everyone, it’s Shawn.
No matter how many parenting books you read or prenatal classes you go to...
Nothing fully prepares you for that drive home from the hospital, where you find yourself asking:
"Wait... so how do I actually raise this tiny human?!"
And you try — you really give it your all — but no matter how hard you're trying...
Sometimes it just doesn't feel like enough.
Right?
And you're constantly thinking:
"Will I ever get the hang of this?"
"What am I doing wrong?"
"What if I mess this up?"
"Why is this so hard for me?"
"Am I doing enough?"
If that sounds familiar, I want you to know you're in the right place.
And you're about to discover something that can completely change your approach to parenting.
(I know it did for us.)
And as a result, you'll be able to experience more peace of mind, more energy, and more love.
We’re so excited for you.
- Shawn & Andrew
Here’s what you need to know:
you are not alone.
Parenting is hard for everyone.
There will always be moments where you feel overwhelmed.
Moments where you need to lock yourself in the bathroom and take a few deep breaths before coming out again.
Moments where you wonder if you're doing something wrong.
Moments where you question whether you're really cut out for this or not.
But with the right game plan...
You can make parenting a LOT easier
without feeling like you need to be perfect all the time.
Being a parent is hard.
Raise your hand if any of these sound familiar 🙋
“Will I ever get the hang of this?”
You thought you’d be patient, loving, and calm as a parent…
But it hasn’t exactly worked out that way.
Sometimes you feel disappointed in yourself. And you wonder whether you’ll ever “figure this parenting out”
“Am I doing enough?”
You can’t get rid of the feeling that you’re not doing enough.
You see other parents and it seems like they have it all figured out.
You can’t help but compare yourself to them. And every time you do…
You feel like you don’t measure up.
“What if I mess this up?”
You want to give your child everything…
But sometimes you fall short. And you can’t help but wonder if you’re going to mess this up.
“I know I can do better. I’m just not sure how.”
Sometimes, you just feel like you’re all alone in the middle of the ocean.
But you’re also determined.
You know there are certain things you can do better as a parent. But you’re not exactly sure how to make that happen.
Richard and Linda Eyre have devoted their careers to empowering thousands of parents.
Sharing invaluable skills and proven methods that help you raise your children with confidence.
They are New York Times bestsellers and have appeared on Good Morning America, Today, and Oprah!
And maybe even more impressive...
They are parents to nine wonderful children and 34 grandchildren whom they absolutely adore.
(And yes — they can remember all their grandkids' names!)
That’s why we connected with the Eyres…
We wanted to work with the Eyres because
the pressure to be a perfect parent is overwhelming.
And unfortunately, it's a battle we always lose.
No parent is perfect. And no child is perfect, either.
And that's okay.
Because you can still raise happy, confident, healthy kids — even if you're not perfect...
And even if you mess up sometimes (we all do!)
After working with the Eyres, we've realized that most of our parenting struggles come from defensive parenting.
It’s when we’re googling, worrying, and doing mental gymnastics to try to solve the problem.
You never know what’s going to happen and you’re always on your toes.
Because each situation feels unique to the other.
So you try creating rules and boundaries with your kids.
But you’ve probably noticed,
Kids don’t always follow the rules…even when they know them.
And despite your best intentions…
You still end up with two kids hitting each other in the back seat of the car.
So how do you “fix” defensive parenting?
Simply put, you start playing offense.
Defensive Parenting is when we
deal with situations as they come up.
The VBP Method makes parenting
easier and creates kind, confident,
and self-sufficient kids.
The Values-Based Parenting (VBP) method is a unique game plan for instilling values in your kids.
The Eyres spoke to thousands and thousands of parents to identify the 12 most important values parents want their children to have.
And then built the VBP Method around those 12 values.
The method shows you how to work with your kids to set up rules and consequences that align with those values.
The VBP Method is all about playing offense, rather than defense when it comes to parenting.
Here’s why that’s important:
In most families…
Parents create the rules and kids follow them (sometimes).
This sets up an “Us vs Them” mentality, because kids don’t have any ownership of the rules in the household.
They may not understand why they’re important…
And as a result…
They don’t always understand why it’s important to follow them.
Not only does this lead to power struggles, it also creates the risk of kids adopting the belief that:
The only reason to follow the rules is because someone else is making me.
While this might work well in situations where the rules are enforced by someone else…
What about those times when you or another authority figure are not around?
Most parents don’t just want their kids to follow the rules…
They want their kids to develop their own internal compass. They want their kids to be able to make healthy, moral choices, no matter who is watching.
Because at the end of the day, that’s what makes a healthy adult:
A clear internal compass.
The VBP Method addresses the root of the parenting struggles.
Rather than dealing with the “symptom” (AKA behavior) alone by setting rules…
The VBP Method helps you work together with your child to address the root of their behavior:
Their values.
You’ll develop a stronger relationship with your child.
The VBP Method helps you have open and honest communication with your child. This leads to a healthier more loving relationship.
On top of that, you’ll give them the communication skills they’ll need for their future relationships too.
You’ll help your child feel more safe and secure.
When you speak openly and honestly with your kids, set clear boundaries, and foster their sense of independence…
They know exactly what to expect from you.
This creates a sense of stability. It helps them feel more safe and secure—which is crucial for developing into a happy confident adult.
These are just a couple of benefits of the VBP Method:
The VBP Method helps you
give your child what they need to thrive as an adult.
You’ll help your child embrace their uniqueness.
When you give your kids the space to share their thoughts and feelings..
You encourage their own uniqueness and independence.
This gives them the confidence to be who they truly are, rather than feeling like they need to fit into a “mold.”
You’ll teach your child to think for themselves.
Rather than setting rules based solely on your own experience and expectations, the VBP Method creates the space to collaborate with your kids.
Teaching them to think critically about why certain things are important, rather than accepting the world at face-value.
“This sounds great,
but how much does it cost?”
Here’s everything your’e going to get when you join Values-Based Parenting today:
Values-Based Parenting Deep Dive
Lesson 1: Values-Based Parenting Introduction
Lesson 2: Values-Based Parenting Overview
Lesson 3: Refining And Creating Your Values
Lesson 4: Family Mission Statements
Overview Family Rhythms & Traditions
Lesson 1: Defensive Vs. Offensive Parenting
Lesson 2: Weekly And Monthly Rhythms And Routines
Lesson 3: Importance Of Family Traditions
Value Breakdowns AND Cheatsheets with Shawn, Andrew, Richard & Linda
Value 1: The Value Of Honesty
Value 2: The Value Of Loyalty And Dependability
Value 3: The Value Of Respect
Value 4: The Value Of Love
Value 5: The Value Of Unselfishness And Sensitivity
Value 6: The Value Of Kindness And Friendliness
Value 7: The Value Of Courage
Value 8: The Value of Self-Discipline & Moderation
Value 9: The Value Of Peaceability
Value 10: The Value Of Self-Reliance And Potential
Value 11: The Value Of Fidelity And Commitment
Value 12: The Value Of Justice And Mercy
Values-Based Parenting is a proven parenting method and our course gives you a step-by-step path to nurturing a confident, kind, and self-sufficient child.
As a result:
You won't have to feel so exhausted all the time...
You won't have to wonder whether you're doing enough as a parent...
And you won't have to be as fearful of what the future holds for your child.
This course helps you address the "root" of parenting struggles. That way, you can have more energy, more confidence, more peace-of-mind, and more love in your family.
So we have to ask:
If all this course did was help you stop feeling so exhausted all the time...
What would that be worth to you?
Or if all it did was help reduce the constant self-doubt you feel about your parenting abilities...
What would that be worth to you?
Or if all it did was help you stop feeling as fearful of what the future holds for your child...
What would that be worth to you?
Ultimately, the question is:
What is raising a kind, confident, and self-sufficient child worth to you?
We think that's one of the absolute most important things in life, but we're not going to charge you an arm and a leg for this.
We want to make The VBP Method accessible for the parents who need it most...
Which is why we're only charging $249 for unlimited access to Values-Based Parenting.
That's it. No catch. No hidden fees.
Just $249 for instant, unlimited access.
This is NOT an "auto-renewal" program.
Like we said, no catch. No hidden fees. 🙂
Join risk-free for 30 days
We've got you covered with our FamilyMade Guarantee. If within the first 30 days, you feel you're not getting the tools you need, we'll give you a full refund.
That's how strongly we believe in the power of Values-Based Parenting to positively impact your family's life.
Just email us at hi@familymade.com and we’ll give you a full 100% refund.
$249
Values-Based Parenting:
work together with your child,
one value at a time.
Frequently Asked Questions
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You'll need about 3 hours to go through the "foundational" content in Values-Based Parenting.
After that, each month's value is condensed into a short video lesson.
You'll also get access to that month's Cheatsheet — which you can go through whenever it's convenient for you.
The lessons are designed to be powerful, but simple. We want to quickly give you what you need...
So you can spend most of your time actually applying these values in your family. 🙂
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When you join the course, you'll get instant access to the foundational lessons and the first month's value — Honesty.
After that, you'll receive one lesson per month on that month's value.
Teaching values takes time. And we know you're busy enough, so we just give you one bite-sized lesson each month.
That way, you just have one value to focus on each month. And you don't have to feel overwhelmed. 🙂
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It's never too late to teach your children values. While it's easiest to start early, this course works for children of all ages from preschoolers to teenagers.
This is another benefit to joining before midnight CST on Sunday, June 25...
Because you'll get 12 months of FREE access to the exclusive FamilyMade Community — where you'll be able to connect with other parents whose kids are the same age and share ideas and insights.
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After 12 months, you can renew your membership if you want to keep your course and community access. If you choose not to renew, you'll no longer have access to the course or community platforms. But the Cheatsheets or any notes you take are yours to keep!
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Currently, we don't offer a sample lesson or trial period. But we do offer a 90-day money-back guarantee. If you find that the course isn't right for you, just email us at hi@familymade.com within 90 days of your purchase and we'll give you a full refund.
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The course is delivered on an online platform. You don't need any specific software — just an internet connection!
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Nope! The community is hosted on the same online platform as the course. No need to create any additional accounts. :)
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We've made the refund process as simple as possible. If you're not satisfied within the first 30 days, just send us an email at hi@familymade.com, and we'll give you a full refund. No questions asked.